I’m a professional matchmaker and I spend my days talking to single men and women who are genuinely looking for relationships.
The biggest lie dating apps sold us is that having more options would make dating easier.
In reality, it did the opposite.
When people believe there are endless options, they stop investing in the person in front of them. They start thinking:
“Maybe someone better is one swipe away.”
And that mindset quietly kills connection before it even has a chance to grow.
The people I see find the best relationships aren’t the ones with the most matches.
They’re the ones who decide:
“I’m going to give this person a real chance.”
Curious if others feel the same way or if dating apps have actually worked for you.
